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WRITING&READING.TO.READorREMEMBER

• Eleanor:
  • On adult/parent/child modes: Harris, A. ‘I’m OK- You’re OK’.
  • Article: intro to parent/adult/child roles

https://medium.com/@NataliMorad/how-to-communicate-better-with-transactional-analysis-d0d32f9d50da

• Theory: Attachment & infant needs

Some useful references on attachment & infant needs, met & unmet:

• • Ainsworth, M.: ‘The Strange Situation’ experiment

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=m_6rQk7jlrc https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=QTsewNrHUHU

• • Horney, K. ‘Our Inner Conflicts’
  • Rebecca Solnit on Donald Trump: https://www.theguardian.com/commentisfree/2020/oct/08/trump-coronavirus-pandemic-dishonest-cruel
  • Horney, K. ‘New Ways in Psychoanalysis’
  • Bowlby, J. ‘Attachment
  • Easy intro to attachment styles: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=QP-nPJbTgTs’
• Theory: Splitting & Projection

- On transference & projection: Freud. S. ‘Introductory Lectures on Psychoanalysis’ - Video: Introduction to Splitting & Projection (3min):https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=F3hzrDDBx-Y - For an overview of theory on splitting, see: https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Splitting_(psychology) - Video: Transference in Daily Life & Relationships (22min): https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=QDd7iJxn370

• Theory: Drama Triangle

- On Drama Triangle: Intro video (4.5mins): https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=z2-RmyaSM-s - cf ‘St Michael & the Devil’ sculpture by Jacob Epstein, Coventry Cathedral. (Persecutor beomes victim; rescuer becomes persecutor.)

Working together during Corona

• Essay analysing video conferencing as a tool in groups & why it is so exhausting https://jer.openlibhums.org/article/10.16995/jer.67/
• Tools: Jitsi, Slack, e-Consensus, Loomio
• 2011 corporate video on how not to do video conferences https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=AjqKiLQ771M
• 2020 NYT article on gender differences in digital meetings https://www.nytimes.com/2020/04/14/us/zoom-meetings-gender.html
• And a research paper it cites, debunking the idea that digital communication (in text form) is a leveller between genders: https://ella.sice.indiana.edu/~herring/herring.stoerger.pdf
• Blog post manifesto for more equitable online meetings, with discussion of power/priviledge https://aspirationtech.org/files/AspirationPowerDynamicsAndInclusionInVirtualMeetings.pdf
• Academic article on power dynamics in distributed virtual teams https://www.researchgate.net/publication/234798464_Who_shouts_louder_exerting_power_across_distance_and_culture